Tuesday, May 22, 2012

An Anniversary Road Trip to Remember

11 years. Eleven. Eeeeeeleven.

Whew.

I called it last year! I said that we would have a family by our 11th anniversary, and looky looky what came true! We usually go on some crazy unplanned road trip to a far away land every year, but we were perfectly content just chillin' with our homies. Well, it started out that way. Then, my parents offered to watch them while Andy and I went on a date! Sounds easy enough, right?

We might as well have hired a crane to lift our house up and set it down in my parent's backyard.

We started packing all of their things up the night before. And kept packing.

...and kept packing.

Sixteen hours later. Yep. Still packing.

Two-of-everything-stuffed-in-our-car-later, we hit the road Saturday afternoon to drive ten miles to my parents house. We dropped the boys off and made sure that we handed my parents an entire page of instructions on how to take care of our babies...as if they didn't raise four kids already.

An hour later they finally convinced us to put the babies down and leave.

We planned it out. We were going to stuff our faces, see an afternoon matinee, stuff our faces again, then partake in an evening of adult beverages. We would then take a cab back to my parents house and crash there for the night.

All started as planned...first stop, Mexican. Ole! Or whatever you say in Spanish. It was a mild and beautiful day, so we sat outside on the veranda and showed the cheese dip and margaritas who's boss. I'm so glad that I had on maternity jeans. I don't think I'll ever be able to give those bad boys up. Muffin-top be gone.

It all went downhill from there.

Next stop, Target. We got our Starbucks fix, then hit up the clearance section. I was so excited that I found the Dove lotion that I've been searching for...cucumber and green tea. I LOVE the smell of it. Not to get off track, but I just realized (nearly a month later) that it was body wash. I've been putting BODY WASH on my legs for the past month. I was wondering why it sucked. Blame sleep deprivation. 

After our Target shopping experience, we pulled to the back of the parking lot and I hopped in the back seat of my car and...haha. Not what you're thinking. I plugged in the Medela and pumped away. Ahhhhh. The life of a breastfeeding mommy. It's a full time job in itself.

By this time, it was already too late to see a matinee, so we just went on to dinner. We decided on the Ale House so that we could try out some new drafts and catch some games. We basically talked about the boys the ENTIRE time, flipped through pictures of them on our phones, ate, and were back at my parents house by 10:30. I ran upstairs to their pack n' play to give them some kisses and make sure they were still breathing. Then I pumped again.

~~~ Happyyyyy. Anniversary. ~~~

Since the boys were out of their element, they were confused and ended up staying up ALL night. We tried to mimic their cribs with the pack n' play, but that was a lost cause. Thankfully mom brought them downstairs the next morning so that we could get a little cat nap.

Moral of story...stay home where your camp is already set up, buy some fancy beer, cook, and cuddle with babies!

A & B on our anniversary...they wanted to be dressed for the occasion!


I'm pretty certain that the ten mile drive to my parents house was the best anniversary road trip we have ever taken in our eleven years together. All because we finally had our babies with us. With a little practice and a moving van, we'll be good to go come this time next year.

P.S. Look like lotion. Smell like lotion. Not lotion.


Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Burnt Toast and a Coor's Light. Finally.

Mother's Day, 1986. My sisters and I decided that it would be a great idea to make our mom a Mother's Day breakfast. I was 7, Katie was 5, and Elizabeth was 2 1/2. To our mother's surprise, we walked into her bedroom with a plate of burnt toast...and a Coors Light.

"Oh my God...I can't drink this, girls!!! It's 6 am!"

Our eyes immediately turned to disappointment...welling up with tears because we thought we had let her down. We had worked so hard on her special breakfast and mom wouldn't drink the beer.

Mom saw the looks in our eyes and quickly cracked open the Coors Light, took a swig and said, "Mmmm...this is the best beer ever! Thank you so much girls!"

Lol. Sorrryyyy Moma.

Here are some pics of my beautiful Moma and I when I was a baby.



Happy Mother's Day, Moma! I love you more than you will ever know, and appreciate all you have done for us and the boys!


After seven incredibly long and painful years, this is what I woke up to on Mother's Day:
My three men staring at me:) I still can't believe this is my reality, but I'm so happy where I'm at. All of the years of depression have finally lifted, and I feel like my life is just beginning. I love motherhood, and it is by far the best job I've ever had! I will never forget all of those years of infertility, and I pray for all of my friends still waiting to be parents on a daily basis. It is SO hard and I know how difficult every Mother's Day can be. Been there and don't want to go back. Infertility permanently affected who I am as a person and put a definite strain on our marriage. I still feel the all to familiar sting when I hear a pregnancy announcement...probably because it comes so easily for most. And probably because we will still have to go through the same crap if we ever want more children. It's so unfair! Having children did not "cure" me. I will probably always have issues, but I'm doing my best to look forward from here on out.

Why did we have to endure years of heartache and disappointment? Why did we have to drain our bank accounts and rack up tens of thousands of dollars in debt? Why did we have to put ourselves through countless medical procedures that failed every. single. time. Why couldn't we just have sex like normal people, get knocked up, and live happily ever after??

This, my friends, is why. If everything would have gone as WE had planned, these two beautiful boys would never be. God knew what he was doing. As a matter of fact, the entire ordeal brought God into our relationship. We had no faith before. Downward spiral. It goes to show that everything is in His time...we have no control. The end result is MUCH better than we could have ever imagined! I don't know what I would do without my babies, and I thank God he made us wait for them!

My first Mother's Day was unbelievable...Andy and the boys made sure that it was a day that I'd never forget!
Breakfast in bed...cornflake crusted french toast and bacon. Yummo!


My little hams wearing their Mother's Day onesies just for mommy.

Mother's Day onesies

My little giggles!

Griswold gave me a bottle of toilet water. Thanks man.

Andy gave me a beautiful locket for their pictures that will be engraved with their initials:)

Anderson in his Mother's Day outfit. Little nugget.

Anderson and Baney gave me a "Mom" charm for my Pandora bracelet. Sigh. Love my little men.

My happy Baney!

Baney giving mommy some cuddles.

My life is complete!

Ahhh!

Love love love them!

Can't get enough of their toothless grins.

Handsome:)

My entire life is sitting on this bench, folks.

We even surprised Mmmie K with a visit,  and got to facetime with Aunt Ebeth!


So grateful. I can't wait until the day my little men bring me burnt toast and a Coor's Light at 6am. I will gladly crack it open to wash down the toast. And give them kisses all over their chunky cheeks.

To me, every day is a cause for celebration...for every day is Mother's Day now!

We're Two Months Old!

We are growing like weeeedsss! We both started smiling and cooing at 8 weeks, and even gave mom and dad a few giggles. Our new favorite trick is to mimic mommy while playing the face game...we love to stick out our tongues at her! We also like to follow her with our eyes as she walks around the room. She can't hide from us anymore.

At our two month checkup, Anderson weighed 11 lb 8 oz (49%) and was 23 1/2 inches long (75%). Baney weighed 13 lb 2 oz (85%) and was 23 1/4 inches long (55%).

Baney thinks his eyes are going to be blue, and Anderson's look dark blue/brown. They can change anytime within our first year so we'll see. Haha. We'll see. Get it?

Womp womp.

Baney just graduated to size 2 diapers, and Anderson is still in size 1. We wolf down about 6-8 oz each of pumped breast milk every 3-4 hours. We know, we're out of control..but our pediatrician says it is fine as long as we are gaining weight appropriately and aren't spitting up. Mommy says that her juggies are huge nowadays. We have to agree. They will look like cans of tuna in tube socks when we are done with them.

We were able to sit up a little easier for our two month photo shoot! We love being silly for the camera, but we have a feeling that we are going to get sick of the camera because mommy won't put that thing down. She needs an intervention.

We made it to two months! Yay!

Silly Smiles

We love our ties, mommy. All grown up 'n stuff.

Anderson

Look out girls. My mommy already says I can't get married and have to live with her forever.

We love the tongue game!

Baney


I make chillaxin' look easy.

Gosh mom. Are you done yet?
Pimpin' out our hoodies from Aunt Ebeth!! We loooove them!

See ya next month!